The life of a word exists within that very particular word, none the matter the manner in which it is spoken or communicated. There is a very large margin in between what is spoken inside of what is spoken and what is understood from what is spoken, meaning: Our spoken word is not directly proportional to the diversely opinionated propagation that it meets.

Shallow and disappointing is our person in the very face of the realisation of our misjudgements and poorly applied misinterpretations of concurrent happenings in and around us. It is not only advised but also highly encouraged that we ought to imbibe the habit of thinking and rethinking, searching and re-searching, pausing and pausing yet again before reacting to words spoken by friends, family and strangers.

A very short path to an acute and a more seemingly exact approach to what we're told or what we say or read is simply by carefully listening; a brisk analysis of what is spoken, read or even said. Many times more than often we think we listen, we think we observe, we think we are in the right of a particular idea or initiative when in the real sense we are not: Carefully examine your pose, mode and mood of approach as in to what you hear and listen to, words are dynamic as much as they are perfectly self-interlocking (you might pick and apply a row of meanings to what was never dropped or necessarily given, which in turn commutes misunderstanding from the speaker to you the listener.) And at the latter end, message was appropriately passed but there evidently was no tangible reception.

Furthermore, in our comments, verbally or on the net, take out time, make certain of yourself and what you are engaging so as to not make unnecessary and inappropriate contributions to what would or might appear to be a very important topic just for the sakes of being heard. Never forget: Wisdom yet spoken is KING to duncery and well articulated foul speech, a very perfect example of presumptuousness at its best that is.
Give in to reason and its properties; Understanding, precision in precession, unwavering in opinion, a more guided approach and reception as in to speech, ours or not. Proper and appropriate appreciation of what we listen to or read is good riddance when in terms of avoidable mistakes and misconceptions.